Last week was our spring break here. And oddly enough, it caught me completely off guard.
I know. How could I forget about spring break? A whole week of kids home. I’m supposed to make plans and things right??
Ha! Yeah. That didn’t happen.
What did happen was me saying something about school the following week and my oldest telling me there wasn’t any. Then me looking confused and him going “mom, it’s SPRING BREAK”.
Oh. That.
Then of course WE ALL GOT SICK.
We did. Well, all except my husband and oldest, thankfully. It started with the littlest, then it got the oldest girl, then my youngest boy…then me. Yay.
So, we started off our spring break sick. It was pretty miserable for all. And in the midst of all of it…we’re in the middle of chaos trying to get our house ready to sell.
I know. I KNOW!
{I’m pretty sure I MIGHT lose my mind trying to attempt this with 4 kids, two of them being twinfants}
Meanwhile….we had to go to the doctor. I won’t go into details about that because it ended up with one of my babies having ear issues and was all awful and tearful (mainly me) and just yuck.
BUT, in the waiting room with all six of us where it is likely we would draw a little bit of attention (because that is life apparently with 4 kids, 2 being twins…people stare. And ask lots of questions….)
There was this lady. She saw us, gasped, and my heart sank as she started coming towards us. I just knew it was going to be one of THOSE encounters….the kind we always get when we’re out and about.
Ya know, the invasive in your face “are they ALL yours?!?!” the “did you do IVF??” or the “Wow….you sure have your hands FULL!”
But no. This lady did not ask or say any of that. Instead she started out with “You have such a beautiful family!”
What?! I’m pretty sure my jaw dropped. I wasn’t expecting such kindness. And I felt like crap, so theres that.
Then she went on to say “boy/girl twins? They are precious! What are their names?”
I said their names. And instead of getting the “wow, never heard that name (for baby girl), it’s so different (or odd or is that a color?)”…..nope. She said “wow, I LOVE it! What a beautiful name! And his so handsome”
I was in shock I think. Who WAS this woman? Then she went on to say “you must have a lot of fun at home! how blessed you are”.
I almost jumped up and hugged her and thanked her for such words. And I’m pretty sure I would have if she hadn’t been hobbling on crutches.
But seriously, SHE MADE MY DAY! I smiled wide and thanked her. I know she has no idea how much she blessed me and my family with her words. Encouraging beautiful words that this weary mama SO needed to hear on the that day.
So, spring break. It kinda stunk in the fun activities department, but the lady in the waiting room seriously helped reset my emotional and mental status for the rest of the week.
Seriously, if more people could have such encouraging words for others, I think the harder days would be made just a smidge brighter….don’t you think?!
{And thankfully we’re all on the path to being healthy once again.}